MatureDJ
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http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/ar...heir-last-names-when-they-get-married/273718/
My opinion:
:crackup:
My opinion:
:crackup:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Should men consider changing their last names when getting married?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Funny this should come up...
Just yesterday I was at my main plate's house and she was trying out her first name with my last name. Uh oh...
A woman not wanting to take my name would be an absolute deal breaker. But it's very easy for a man to determine very early if she is submissive or not. If she's not, head for the hills, boys.
Her wanting to keep her old name sends a very clear message and is the vanguard of a future of misery unless you're a mangina.
Just yesterday I was at my main plate's house and she was trying out her first name with my last name. Uh oh...
A woman not wanting to take my name would be an absolute deal breaker. But it's very easy for a man to determine very early if she is submissive or not. If she's not, head for the hills, boys.
Her wanting to keep her old name sends a very clear message and is the vanguard of a future of misery unless you're a mangina.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
I knew a guy in university who married his GF and changed his last name to hers...what a beta f@ggot!!!
Of course, 2 kids later he walks in on her banging another guy. Marriage over.
.....of course, ya couldn't have predicted that one eh??????
Probably the most BETA thing a man could EVER do.....it goes against every red pill maxim ever written.
Of course, 2 kids later he walks in on her banging another guy. Marriage over.
.....of course, ya couldn't have predicted that one eh??????
Probably the most BETA thing a man could EVER do.....it goes against every red pill maxim ever written.
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taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
From the movie "Two Mules For Sister Sarah"
Nun: Why don't you want to get married?
Clint: Because they'll steal your name and make you stop drinking whiskey!
Nun: Why don't you want to get married?
Clint: Because they'll steal your name and make you stop drinking whiskey!
Sean99
New Member
Really? Lol!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Get the handbag ready!
It is little know, that when a man changes his name to his wife's, a 3 foot gremlin comes to your house with a garden shear. You then strip down, and place one foot up on the couch, and the other on the coffee table and perform a wide low-squat. In one quick sweep, the gremlin snips your balls off and your wife catches them in her $3,000 Valentino handbag.
They then both merrily chuckle to themselves shoulder to shoulder before the gremlin runs off grabbing a cookie as he fleas in the process.
This is all true. Look it up.
It is little know, that when a man changes his name to his wife's, a 3 foot gremlin comes to your house with a garden shear. You then strip down, and place one foot up on the couch, and the other on the coffee table and perform a wide low-squat. In one quick sweep, the gremlin snips your balls off and your wife catches them in her $3,000 Valentino handbag.
They then both merrily chuckle to themselves shoulder to shoulder before the gremlin runs off grabbing a cookie as he fleas in the process.
This is all true. Look it up.
SgtSplacker
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I consider it the first in a line of sacrifices she is going to have to make to be under my roof. Her prize is the marriage itself.
If I marry a female i'm basically saying i'm going to care for and support her for the rest of her life. Any failure in this agreement is going to be viewed as my fault regardless of what is what.
My financial obligations.
My money.
My last name.
If she doesn't like it, thank goodness for plate theory!
If I marry a female i'm basically saying i'm going to care for and support her for the rest of her life. Any failure in this agreement is going to be viewed as my fault regardless of what is what.
My financial obligations.
My money.
My last name.
If she doesn't like it, thank goodness for plate theory!
Here is something for these silly bytches to think about if they think it is some feminist right to keep their maiden name - it is in all probability THEIR FATHERS name anyway that there Mother took on when she married - have these dumb feminist bytches thought about that?
Atom Smasher
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^^ That's an excellent point. ^^
Peaks&Valleys
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I thought this was a troll thread at first.
At this point in the game, is something like this even going to be a question?
Whatever, you guys can discuss this $hit all you want. If you're even questioning this then you're already fvcked.
At this point in the game, is something like this even going to be a question?
Whatever, you guys can discuss this $hit all you want. If you're even questioning this then you're already fvcked.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Peaks&Valleys
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Yeah, you're right.Zunder said:
Think I was just blowing off some steam myself.
I have a very good friend that took his wife's last name. His reasoning was that he never met his father because he ejected before he was born so he said "Why keep that guys name whom I never met? I'll take hers"
It worked out good for him and I agree with what he did. I also have to mention that she's submissive and he wears the pants.
It worked out good for him and I agree with what he did. I also have to mention that she's submissive and he wears the pants.