MatureDJ
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http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/ar...heir-last-names-when-they-get-married/273718/
My opinion:
:crackup:
My opinion:
:crackup:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should men consider changing their last names when getting married?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Funny this should come up...
Just yesterday I was at my main plate's house and she was trying out her first name with my last name. Uh oh...
A woman not wanting to take my name would be an absolute deal breaker. But it's very easy for a man to determine very early if she is submissive or not. If she's not, head for the hills, boys.
Her wanting to keep her old name sends a very clear message and is the vanguard of a future of misery unless you're a mangina.
Just yesterday I was at my main plate's house and she was trying out her first name with my last name. Uh oh...
A woman not wanting to take my name would be an absolute deal breaker. But it's very easy for a man to determine very early if she is submissive or not. If she's not, head for the hills, boys.
Her wanting to keep her old name sends a very clear message and is the vanguard of a future of misery unless you're a mangina.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
I knew a guy in university who married his GF and changed his last name to hers...what a beta f@ggot!!!
Of course, 2 kids later he walks in on her banging another guy. Marriage over.
.....of course, ya couldn't have predicted that one eh??????
Probably the most BETA thing a man could EVER do.....it goes against every red pill maxim ever written.
Of course, 2 kids later he walks in on her banging another guy. Marriage over.
.....of course, ya couldn't have predicted that one eh??????
Probably the most BETA thing a man could EVER do.....it goes against every red pill maxim ever written.
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taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
From the movie "Two Mules For Sister Sarah"
Nun: Why don't you want to get married?
Clint: Because they'll steal your name and make you stop drinking whiskey!
Nun: Why don't you want to get married?
Clint: Because they'll steal your name and make you stop drinking whiskey!
Sean99
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Really? Lol!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Get the handbag ready!
It is little know, that when a man changes his name to his wife's, a 3 foot gremlin comes to your house with a garden shear. You then strip down, and place one foot up on the couch, and the other on the coffee table and perform a wide low-squat. In one quick sweep, the gremlin snips your balls off and your wife catches them in her $3,000 Valentino handbag.
They then both merrily chuckle to themselves shoulder to shoulder before the gremlin runs off grabbing a cookie as he fleas in the process.
This is all true. Look it up.
It is little know, that when a man changes his name to his wife's, a 3 foot gremlin comes to your house with a garden shear. You then strip down, and place one foot up on the couch, and the other on the coffee table and perform a wide low-squat. In one quick sweep, the gremlin snips your balls off and your wife catches them in her $3,000 Valentino handbag.
They then both merrily chuckle to themselves shoulder to shoulder before the gremlin runs off grabbing a cookie as he fleas in the process.
This is all true. Look it up.
SgtSplacker
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I consider it the first in a line of sacrifices she is going to have to make to be under my roof. Her prize is the marriage itself.
If I marry a female i'm basically saying i'm going to care for and support her for the rest of her life. Any failure in this agreement is going to be viewed as my fault regardless of what is what.
My financial obligations.
My money.
My last name.
If she doesn't like it, thank goodness for plate theory!
If I marry a female i'm basically saying i'm going to care for and support her for the rest of her life. Any failure in this agreement is going to be viewed as my fault regardless of what is what.
My financial obligations.
My money.
My last name.
If she doesn't like it, thank goodness for plate theory!
Here is something for these silly bytches to think about if they think it is some feminist right to keep their maiden name - it is in all probability THEIR FATHERS name anyway that there Mother took on when she married - have these dumb feminist bytches thought about that?
Atom Smasher
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^^ That's an excellent point. ^^
Peaks&Valleys
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I thought this was a troll thread at first.
At this point in the game, is something like this even going to be a question?
Whatever, you guys can discuss this $hit all you want. If you're even questioning this then you're already fvcked.
At this point in the game, is something like this even going to be a question?
Whatever, you guys can discuss this $hit all you want. If you're even questioning this then you're already fvcked.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Peaks&Valleys
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Yeah, you're right.Zunder said:
Think I was just blowing off some steam myself.
I have a very good friend that took his wife's last name. His reasoning was that he never met his father because he ejected before he was born so he said "Why keep that guys name whom I never met? I'll take hers"
It worked out good for him and I agree with what he did. I also have to mention that she's submissive and he wears the pants.
It worked out good for him and I agree with what he did. I also have to mention that she's submissive and he wears the pants.