"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should men consider changing their last names when getting married?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atom Smasher

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Funny this should come up...

Just yesterday I was at my main plate's house and she was trying out her first name with my last name. Uh oh...

A woman not wanting to take my name would be an absolute deal breaker. But it's very easy for a man to determine very early if she is submissive or not. If she's not, head for the hills, boys.

Her wanting to keep her old name sends a very clear message and is the vanguard of a future of misery unless you're a mangina.
 

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I knew a guy in university who married his GF and changed his last name to hers...what a beta f@ggot!!!

Of course, 2 kids later he walks in on her banging another guy. Marriage over.

.....of course, ya couldn't have predicted that one eh??????

Probably the most BETA thing a man could EVER do.....it goes against every red pill maxim ever written.
 
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From the movie "Two Mules For Sister Sarah"

Nun: Why don't you want to get married?

Clint: Because they'll steal your name and make you stop drinking whiskey!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VladPatton

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Get the handbag ready!

It is little know, that when a man changes his name to his wife's, a 3 foot gremlin comes to your house with a garden shear. You then strip down, and place one foot up on the couch, and the other on the coffee table and perform a wide low-squat. In one quick sweep, the gremlin snips your balls off and your wife catches them in her $3,000 Valentino handbag.

They then both merrily chuckle to themselves shoulder to shoulder before the gremlin runs off grabbing a cookie as he fleas in the process.

This is all true. Look it up.
 

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I consider it the first in a line of sacrifices she is going to have to make to be under my roof. Her prize is the marriage itself.

If I marry a female i'm basically saying i'm going to care for and support her for the rest of her life. Any failure in this agreement is going to be viewed as my fault regardless of what is what.

My financial obligations.

My money.

My last name.

If she doesn't like it, thank goodness for plate theory!
 

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Here is something for these silly bytches to think about if they think it is some feminist right to keep their maiden name - it is in all probability THEIR FATHERS name anyway that there Mother took on when she married - have these dumb feminist bytches thought about that?
 

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I thought this was a troll thread at first.

At this point in the game, is something like this even going to be a question?

Whatever, you guys can discuss this $hit all you want. If you're even questioning this then you're already fvcked.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I thought this was a troll thread at first.

At this point in the game, is something like this even going to be a question?

Whatever, you guys can discuss this $hit all you want. If you're even questioning this then you're already fvcked.
Mature DJ has been on SSMM for quite a while.
You are taking this all too seriously - this forum is as much as a bunch of blokes letting off steam as it about all the 'DJ' stuff.
 

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Zunder said:
Mature DJ has been on SSMM for quite a while.
You are taking this all too seriously - this forum is as much as a bunch of blokes letting off steam as it about all the 'DJ' stuff.
Yeah, you're right.

Think I was just blowing off some steam myself. :D
 

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I have a very good friend that took his wife's last name. His reasoning was that he never met his father because he ejected before he was born so he said "Why keep that guys name whom I never met? I'll take hers"
It worked out good for him and I agree with what he did. I also have to mention that she's submissive and he wears the pants.
 
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