"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Should I?

dwhitey

New Member
Joined
Feb 2, 2006
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Alright i got a question... i met these girls at camp 2 yrs ago, we all became friends and all that, and me and this girl got pretty close, she had a bf at the time, and we were talkin and i told her i was interested in her, a week or 2 later her and her bf broke up, and we started talkin, all the usual stuff, stayin up till 4 in the morn. long distance cell phone calls, and b 4 i went back to where i lived i went to go meet her at another one of her camps, and one day we jus stopped talkin to each other, weve talked here and there, and im back down there this weekend to meet up with some old buds, and we r gunna drive down to c those gals and shell b there, the problem is for the past few weeks ive been thinkin bout her and we havent talked in a long time, but ive been thinkin bout her alot and wonderin if somethin could work out, but ive also been beatin myself up cuz its jus plain crazy to wanna c her wen i havent seen or talked to her in like 2 yrs and its crazy to wanna strike somethin up between us again especially since weve both grown up alot we r both bout to graduate and im enlisting in the marines at the end of the yr, but honestly i dont know if its jus cuz we never went out or did n e thing , but the past few weeks ive been thinkin alot about her and wat we use to have and wantin to have somethin with her again, and honestly she was the greatest girl i knew back then, she was perfect to me in every way, and i wanna know if somethin could happen between us, so my question is how should i go in seeing and talking to her again, and how should i hint that for some crazy and strange reason im still very interested in her? Dwhitey
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Spookey

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2006
Messages
64
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
Melbourne, Australia
sounds like oneitis to me.

if you think you can make something of it, give it a shot, but do it with 100% confidence. call her and act like have been seeing her all the time. confidence, it unlocks so many doors its not funny

If you want to give it a shot, go for it, what do you have to loose?
 

dwhitey

New Member
Joined
Feb 2, 2006
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
well i aint much of a typer, and like i said its crazy, but you both are right, thanks for the help- Dwhitey
 
Top