"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dwhitey

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Alright i got a question... i met these girls at camp 2 yrs ago, we all became friends and all that, and me and this girl got pretty close, she had a bf at the time, and we were talkin and i told her i was interested in her, a week or 2 later her and her bf broke up, and we started talkin, all the usual stuff, stayin up till 4 in the morn. long distance cell phone calls, and b 4 i went back to where i lived i went to go meet her at another one of her camps, and one day we jus stopped talkin to each other, weve talked here and there, and im back down there this weekend to meet up with some old buds, and we r gunna drive down to c those gals and shell b there, the problem is for the past few weeks ive been thinkin bout her and we havent talked in a long time, but ive been thinkin bout her alot and wonderin if somethin could work out, but ive also been beatin myself up cuz its jus plain crazy to wanna c her wen i havent seen or talked to her in like 2 yrs and its crazy to wanna strike somethin up between us again especially since weve both grown up alot we r both bout to graduate and im enlisting in the marines at the end of the yr, but honestly i dont know if its jus cuz we never went out or did n e thing , but the past few weeks ive been thinkin alot about her and wat we use to have and wantin to have somethin with her again, and honestly she was the greatest girl i knew back then, she was perfect to me in every way, and i wanna know if somethin could happen between us, so my question is how should i go in seeing and talking to her again, and how should i hint that for some crazy and strange reason im still very interested in her? Dwhitey
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sounds like oneitis to me.

if you think you can make something of it, give it a shot, but do it with 100% confidence. call her and act like have been seeing her all the time. confidence, it unlocks so many doors its not funny

If you want to give it a shot, go for it, what do you have to loose?
 

dwhitey

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well i aint much of a typer, and like i said its crazy, but you both are right, thanks for the help- Dwhitey
 
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