"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I?

Madcat

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I wanted an opinion on what you guys think is ok to ask that wont cause problems. I wanted to know if you guys think its ok to ask your gf of a month if shes a virgin or had sex or whatever way you want to word it. Im curious because things are happening a little fast and dont want to possibly cause problems by not knowing. If you dont think its wrong then what way should i bring it up to her that wont offend or anything?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Osiris7250

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unless she is a psycho she wont be bothered that much by it. Most guys do ask what their girls have done before, dont sweat it just ask her straight foreward, "so whats the furthest you been with a guy?" or however you want to word it.
 

NRM

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Typically, it's something that you don't want to know. You'll just start imagining her with other guys and that'll screw up whatever you have going. But if you're really curious, you need to be comfortable with her enough to ask her that sort of thing.
 

Nex

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I always assume they aren't virgin, and when talking about sex I'll always say something like "but there's no point in talking about this... you obviously know from experience everything about that!" -- get punched, though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Capi Crimini

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Wow... that always comes up on my first few dates... hmmmm
 
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