"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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should i??

should i go back and ask for number?

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kyle87

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Today was at quiznos and the girl making my sandwich was smoking.
We mad eye contact several times even had very small talk.
I was going to ask for a number but froze and did not, I'm out of a 5 year relationship,
So getting back out there. Should I go back in with the confidence I know I have with some smooth talk and ask for it, or just let it be a lesson learned?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The lesson learned is that you don't always get a second chance. You can go in a second time but she probably wont be there, just make sure you're actually buying something not going JUST for her.

Here's a story: I went to Jack In The Box for lunch one day. Made eye contact with this hb8.5 MULTIPLE times. Now i was stuffing my face with tacos and such so It didn't really occur to me until AFTER we left.
I have not gotten a second chance since, but I now make sure I take chances the first time the opportunity arises.

You need to act THEN not later because there might not be a later.
 

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I'm going back in hopefully she is still there, I'll grab a soda why'll I'm in there ;-)
 

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She was there, made the small talk, she has a BF.
Its nice though to get the first rejection out of the way lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha I told her I wasn't jealous, but guess he is.
Didn't think about saying your not engaged can't be serious lol
But didn't hit tell I was driving away.
 
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