"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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should i??

should i go back and ask for number?

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Today was at quiznos and the girl making my sandwich was smoking.
We mad eye contact several times even had very small talk.
I was going to ask for a number but froze and did not, I'm out of a 5 year relationship,
So getting back out there. Should I go back in with the confidence I know I have with some smooth talk and ask for it, or just let it be a lesson learned?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The lesson learned is that you don't always get a second chance. You can go in a second time but she probably wont be there, just make sure you're actually buying something not going JUST for her.

Here's a story: I went to Jack In The Box for lunch one day. Made eye contact with this hb8.5 MULTIPLE times. Now i was stuffing my face with tacos and such so It didn't really occur to me until AFTER we left.
I have not gotten a second chance since, but I now make sure I take chances the first time the opportunity arises.

You need to act THEN not later because there might not be a later.
 
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I'm going back in hopefully she is still there, I'll grab a soda why'll I'm in there ;-)
 
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She was there, made the small talk, she has a BF.
Its nice though to get the first rejection out of the way lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha I told her I wasn't jealous, but guess he is.
Didn't think about saying your not engaged can't be serious lol
But didn't hit tell I was driving away.
 
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