"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I?

DogFashionDisco

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Sup you guys. There's this girl who I've known for about 5 months now. At first things were good, I was getting to know her. She invited me to this fair, and it just went wrong because I ended up being 7 hours late... Anyways, things went down hill from there. Got in and out of liking her. At first I knew she liked me, nowadays she still shows me signs, but its iffy if it's just how she's used to being around me. Anyways, I might chill with her next week, first time since that fair incident, and I plan on surprising her. I wanna try a, "close your eyes and I'll give you a present", but instead just kiss her on the spot. What do you guys think about this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PleasureKing

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do that and she will think your a whimp. plus if you do that, im sure you will be so nervous you will just touch lips and let go. and the whole reason you decided on making a "sneakish plan" because you are scared in general.

the more sexual you make it, the more "romantic" she will see it. she'll be running to her friends the next day talking about you...trust me on this one.
 

amoka

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7 hours late? Did you meet her online and in different city?
 
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