"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I?

DogFashionDisco

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Sup you guys. There's this girl who I've known for about 5 months now. At first things were good, I was getting to know her. She invited me to this fair, and it just went wrong because I ended up being 7 hours late... Anyways, things went down hill from there. Got in and out of liking her. At first I knew she liked me, nowadays she still shows me signs, but its iffy if it's just how she's used to being around me. Anyways, I might chill with her next week, first time since that fair incident, and I plan on surprising her. I wanna try a, "close your eyes and I'll give you a present", but instead just kiss her on the spot. What do you guys think about this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PleasureKing

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do that and she will think your a whimp. plus if you do that, im sure you will be so nervous you will just touch lips and let go. and the whole reason you decided on making a "sneakish plan" because you are scared in general.

the more sexual you make it, the more "romantic" she will see it. she'll be running to her friends the next day talking about you...trust me on this one.
 

amoka

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7 hours late? Did you meet her online and in different city?
 
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