"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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should I ?

jeanpierresylla

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There is a really hot girl at my work that has been flirting with me a lot.
I have been thinking about asking her out but there is one problem.
The girl has already gone out with 3 different guys at my work and they all basically got played.
I dont wanna be the fourth one but I dont really wanna miss an opportunity.
Do you think I should ask her out and see what happens, or should I just never hit on her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GHardy

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Ha ha ... no.

The girl has already gone out with 3 different guys at my work and they all basically got played.
I think that's all you need to know. Stay away. Don't let your c*ck convince you that you are going to be different from the others. You won't be and you will get played too.
 
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