"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should I ?

jeanpierresylla

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There is a really hot girl at my work that has been flirting with me a lot.
I have been thinking about asking her out but there is one problem.
The girl has already gone out with 3 different guys at my work and they all basically got played.
I dont wanna be the fourth one but I dont really wanna miss an opportunity.
Do you think I should ask her out and see what happens, or should I just never hit on her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GHardy

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Ha ha ... no.

The girl has already gone out with 3 different guys at my work and they all basically got played.
I think that's all you need to know. Stay away. Don't let your c*ck convince you that you are going to be different from the others. You won't be and you will get played too.
 
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