"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should I ?

jeanpierresylla

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There is a really hot girl at my work that has been flirting with me a lot.
I have been thinking about asking her out but there is one problem.
The girl has already gone out with 3 different guys at my work and they all basically got played.
I dont wanna be the fourth one but I dont really wanna miss an opportunity.
Do you think I should ask her out and see what happens, or should I just never hit on her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GHardy

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Ha ha ... no.

The girl has already gone out with 3 different guys at my work and they all basically got played.
I think that's all you need to know. Stay away. Don't let your c*ck convince you that you are going to be different from the others. You won't be and you will get played too.
 
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