"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I Worry About Reputation From Cold Approaches?

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Right, having sat on my arse with regard to cold approaches for the past 3 months due to exams and having a gf (who i've just split up with), i'm ready and psyched to get back in the field, and go out and approach a sh1t load of women.

I've got a dilemma tho about whether i should go do 'em in my home town or look further afield.
My home town has around 100,000 people and because of my job (i work in the main nightclub in the city), i'm highly likely to bump into a lot of the women again.

What do you guys think on the sort of reputation i'm likely to get from approaching women cold (often using direct approach) on the street? - would you say its likely to lead to a 'hes a weirdo, stay away from him' reputation, or a 'hes got confidence and balls and gets sh!t loads of women' reputation?

Btw, i have done cold approaches before (did 5 using the 'are you single?' line like 3 months ago, plus other indirect approaches) and my nearest alternative town for sarging is like 15 miles away, which is a right pain up the arse.

Wadda y'all think?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Hahaha, i really ought to change my sign in name, fat birds are a thing of the past for me now (apart from the odd blip)

I'm gonna get started on the approaches today
Anyone else tho?
 
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