"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I Worry About Reputation From Cold Approaches?

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Right, having sat on my arse with regard to cold approaches for the past 3 months due to exams and having a gf (who i've just split up with), i'm ready and psyched to get back in the field, and go out and approach a sh1t load of women.

I've got a dilemma tho about whether i should go do 'em in my home town or look further afield.
My home town has around 100,000 people and because of my job (i work in the main nightclub in the city), i'm highly likely to bump into a lot of the women again.

What do you guys think on the sort of reputation i'm likely to get from approaching women cold (often using direct approach) on the street? - would you say its likely to lead to a 'hes a weirdo, stay away from him' reputation, or a 'hes got confidence and balls and gets sh!t loads of women' reputation?

Btw, i have done cold approaches before (did 5 using the 'are you single?' line like 3 months ago, plus other indirect approaches) and my nearest alternative town for sarging is like 15 miles away, which is a right pain up the arse.

Wadda y'all think?!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Hahaha, i really ought to change my sign in name, fat birds are a thing of the past for me now (apart from the odd blip)

I'm gonna get started on the approaches today
Anyone else tho?
 
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