"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I Worry About Reputation From Cold Approaches?

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Right, having sat on my arse with regard to cold approaches for the past 3 months due to exams and having a gf (who i've just split up with), i'm ready and psyched to get back in the field, and go out and approach a sh1t load of women.

I've got a dilemma tho about whether i should go do 'em in my home town or look further afield.
My home town has around 100,000 people and because of my job (i work in the main nightclub in the city), i'm highly likely to bump into a lot of the women again.

What do you guys think on the sort of reputation i'm likely to get from approaching women cold (often using direct approach) on the street? - would you say its likely to lead to a 'hes a weirdo, stay away from him' reputation, or a 'hes got confidence and balls and gets sh!t loads of women' reputation?

Btw, i have done cold approaches before (did 5 using the 'are you single?' line like 3 months ago, plus other indirect approaches) and my nearest alternative town for sarging is like 15 miles away, which is a right pain up the arse.

Wadda y'all think?!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Hahaha, i really ought to change my sign in name, fat birds are a thing of the past for me now (apart from the odd blip)

I'm gonna get started on the approaches today
Anyone else tho?
 
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