"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Known this girl for a couple of months, was at college for the majority of it. Home now on break. I'll give some background

-girl is 2 years younger than me
-girl currently has ****ty bf whos her age
-girl says biggest regret was getting back wit ****ty bf
-girl constantly texts me everyday
-girl always drops little hints that she likes me but i think she is just teasing..such as when talking about studying for a test she asks "wanna be my study buddy? :)" and then when i laugh it off and am just like "hahah yea yea sure" says that she misses me already even tho she saw me 4 hours before....girl also tells me that shes home alone and ask me to come visit her but then when i ask at what time says that she doesnt know when her mom is coming home so it wouldnt be a good idea anymore
-but, everytime i hangout with girl it is always with a friend, preventing me from really doing anything. i told her one day ago that i want to hang out with JUST her and not her friends, should i give her some time to see if she will and if she doesn't walk away? i 50/50 right now...i think this girl is just a **** tease and trying to get me to hooked into her even more but then again i think shes kinda interested but either way i'm still willing to walk away. what do you think? is there any thing i can do or say to really know if shes interested in me? i was thinking of telling her that we shouldnt hang out or talk anymore since she has a boyfriend and she what she says....or is this a bad idea?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd recommend using a bf destroyer. Otherwise your feelings are about as safe as a blind pig in a slaugterhouse.

That last sentence...Don't do it. If you rely on luck here, it won't be 50/50, it'll be more like 7/93. The odds are not in your favor.

You just have to become more attractive than the current bf. DO NOT FALL IN THE FRIEND ZONE! Don't come on too strong eiter. The latter can get you rejected plus the attraction will end faster than Milli Vanilli's career.
 
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As long as you are able to walk away you CANNOT LOSE.

I think your biggest advantage here is that you are 2 years older. But is she really worth it? How hot is she? How cool is his boyfriend? Will you look like a douche for stealing a girl off a guy thats 2 years younger?

Don't just hang around and be that 2nd dude. I see guys do this all the time and the girl never leaves her boyfriend and it leads to depression and AFCness because they believe she will eventually leave. She wont.

Try some kino and stuff and eventually demand an ultimatum. If she refuses then walk away.

Can't say im familar with 'bf destroyers'.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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biggest regret is her bf? Giving you hints of attraction?
Go for her. She will leave her boy for you..
 
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