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Should I use neg hits on height?

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I have a question, I know this girl from my old high school who I just recently met again. She once told me that she thought she was short (she kinda is, shes only 5 feet), and me, being the niceguy, told her, "aww, dont think that, I dont think your short...." yuckkkk.

Anyways, i know that I screwed up and was a pushover, cause i listened to all of her problems and she once asked me out, so i said sure, where do you want to go? and she said that she wants to go bowling and i said nah lets go to the movies (make out session) and then i changed my mind and said bowling is fine and then she "mysteriously" had something on that day and didnt want to set up another date with me....

Anyways, I did not know about this website until about a week ago, and i have been reading all the articles and I want to make it all up! Should I give her a neghit on her height the next time i meet her? Or do girls hate it when the neghit is about their height? :confused:
 

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give her a neghit about her hight but do not sound mean do not go up to her and for no apparnt reason say your short i hate that. What you have to do is wait for the right situation to use it and then say it in a playfull way or if she is saying she is short and you are saying to her no your not and she says yes i am then just reply, yeh your right your are short (still make sure it comes off as a joke)

hope ive been a help!
 

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Do NOT give her a neghit on her height, she can't change that.

And read the bible.
 

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good point! my mistake
 

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Hell yeah man, you can do neghits on height. Just dont do it every five minutes man or else shell get hella pissed off, its just playing with them.
 

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I don't like the term "neg-hit" because has all sorts of implications and people rarely use them correctly. But yes, you can make comments about her height, as long as 1.) They are funny and 2.) she knows you're joking. Just don't be an ******* and INSULT her, because there is a difference.
 

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Guys, you can use neg hits on chick's height. But like Interpol said, it has to be funny, and she knows you gotta be joking. I always used to tease my ex's on their height and I do it on my current chick. Like I tell my current girl "Wow, I swear I've seen you on T.V. ... Arn't you part of the oompa loompa squad ?? "



LoL that reminds me.. when I was talking to my girlfriend yesterday, she was about to lean in for a kiss and than I saw some slight peach fuzz above her lips (Not really seeable, but you gotta be really close) and I was like "Awww.. how cute! You got a baby mustache!!!" And she was just like :eek: "NO I DON'T." And she just had a panic attack right there and wen't up to all her friends saying "Luis said I have a mustache!! Do I!?!? :eek:" Bwuahaha :p

Today, it isn't there. :p Good times.

Sorry to bring that up.
 
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you should have said...."no i dont think youre short(say in a very uneasy way)....well maybe if you wore some 2 feet plataform shoes, i could sound more honest..."

or you could say something like "no...hows the weather down there anyways?"
 

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"Hey, that dress would look a lot better if your breasts were bigger!"

Same exact thing, man...
 

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Cap Sparrow, your lucky she didnt get pissed at you with that mustachce ****. Advice to everybody, unless she is whipped dont go throwing any kind of neghits at them.
 

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i had several female friends and girlfriends who were short and i was cracking short jokes on all of them.none got offended and usually they just looked at me with that "i'ma get you when i get a chance" expression and laughed or playfully punched me.
but yeah just make sure it actually is funny and dont do it often cause it will become annoying if overdone. if a chick is so insecure she can't laugh at herself once in a while i dont even waste time on her.
 

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Originally posted by Osiris7250
Cap Sparrow, your lucky she didnt get pissed at you with that mustachce ****. Advice to everybody, unless she is whipped dont go throwing any kind of neghits at them.
advice to you....dont give advice again.
 

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Originally posted by Osiris7250
Cap Sparrow, your lucky she didnt get pissed at you with that mustachce ****. Advice to everybody, unless she is whipped dont go throwing any kind of neghits at them.
Like uh.. She knew I was teasing her and besides, I didn't say it in a serious way but a playful way. After I said that she started laughing loud and playfully hit me in the spot (not to hard ofcourse or I would punch her in her booby). Plus I still got that kiss :D but she bit my neck :(
 

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undesputable.....go ahead be a **** to a chick, then when she dumps you, and you look like the loser you most likely are then you can remember my advice;)

and to correct my previous posting, only neghit when you make a joke out of it.
 

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too bad life is too good right now to only have one girl....so no i wont get dumped, bc im not a little ***** who settles for one girl(no offense for those with gf)....but some ppl have a gf just cause hes afraid no other girl will like him....e.g. osiaris
 

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A funny one is to is to sweep your gaze above their head and ask, "Where'd you go?"
 

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Thanks for all your replies. Some of those height neghits are good, but i think i might not do neghits on height unless she brings it up.
 
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Originally posted by deslite231
I have a question, I know this girl from my old high school who I just recently met again. She once told me that she thought she was short (she kinda is, shes only 5 feet), and me, being the niceguy, told her, "aww, dont think that, I dont think your short...." yuckkkk.

Anyways, i know that I screwed up and was a pushover, cause i listened to all of her problems and she once asked me out, so i said sure, where do you want to go? and she said that she wants to go bowling and i said nah lets go to the movies (make out session) and then i changed my mind and said bowling is fine and then she "mysteriously" had something on that day and didnt want to set up another date with me....

Anyways, I did not know about this website until about a week ago, and i have been reading all the articles and I want to make it all up! Should I give her a neghit on her height the next time i meet her? Or do girls hate it when the neghit is about their height? :confused:
Instead of saying "sure where do you want to go" you should of said "Sure, lets goto the movies" or something like that. You should be the decision maker for the dates. If she doesent like what u picked shell let you know.
 
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