"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should i try to reschedual the date.... AGAIN?

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Okay so i well try to keep this short as possible, cuz i don't like typing, and you don't like reading.

Thursday i asked a girl to go snowboarding tomorrow (friday) (we have had a huge snow storm) She said yes and to text her friday.

Friday I text her and she said she was grounded, and to try again tomorrow.

Saturday Power was out so the answer was obvious.

Sunday Power was out again, so i didn't even ask

So today is Monday. Should i ask her, should i wait another day, or just forget about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aaron2fast said:
Maybe you shouldn't ask her. Tell her, instead.

Say something like, "let's go do something fun tomorrow." Get her interested, then tell her what you're going to do.
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he already asked her for a specific date.... hes not asking how to get her on a date....
 
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sounds like fate ask her again if not screw it or take it as a persistants trial or maybe she doesn't like you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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