"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should i try to reschedual the date.... AGAIN?

danny987

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Okay so i well try to keep this short as possible, cuz i don't like typing, and you don't like reading.

Thursday i asked a girl to go snowboarding tomorrow (friday) (we have had a huge snow storm) She said yes and to text her friday.

Friday I text her and she said she was grounded, and to try again tomorrow.

Saturday Power was out so the answer was obvious.

Sunday Power was out again, so i didn't even ask

So today is Monday. Should i ask her, should i wait another day, or just forget about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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smoothtalker72

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aaron2fast said:
Maybe you shouldn't ask her. Tell her, instead.

Say something like, "let's go do something fun tomorrow." Get her interested, then tell her what you're going to do.
he already asked her for a specific date.... hes not asking how to get her on a date....
 

darkguy9944

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sounds like fate ask her again if not screw it or take it as a persistants trial or maybe she doesn't like you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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