Ok there’s this woman I’ve been interested in for a long time. She’s beautiful, intelligent, classy, but also very modest. The signals I get from her, however, are erratic. She often makes a point of smiling and saying hello in passing (or sometimes even from afar), but when I’ve tried talking to her she seems to close up (this is actually very rare for me btw) – which I can’t discern between total lack of interest or shyness.
I don’t know her particularly well, but we had a class together last year and have a number of mutal acquaintances (all of whom think very highly of me). Anyway, I probably won’t see her again now until next term, so I’ve been thinking of writing her an email asking her for a drink or coffee after the exams. It’s not the approach I’d normally choose and was hoping some of you guys could give me some ideas on how to go about it, or whether you think it’s just a plain bad idea.
I don’t know her particularly well, but we had a class together last year and have a number of mutal acquaintances (all of whom think very highly of me). Anyway, I probably won’t see her again now until next term, so I’ve been thinking of writing her an email asking her for a drink or coffee after the exams. It’s not the approach I’d normally choose and was hoping some of you guys could give me some ideas on how to go about it, or whether you think it’s just a plain bad idea.
