"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I transfer colleges

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I am right now in a commuter college and I have a bunch of good friends i can trust, guys that I chill with every weekend and there cool. But I havent met any girls at the time I was here or not many. The thing is that I dont cold approach so meeting girls on a comuter campus is hard.

I am thinking of transfering to a school about an hour away that has a dormitory, and I was wondering that even though I would be alone completely for the first semester should I go with the possibilty of meeting new people or stay put with my current group of friends.

BTW the dormitory school has a better education.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No transfering schools will not interfere with my goals, but I feel that a scholl with dorms and frats would give me more oppurtunity to meet people and to at least experience something that I have wanted to.
 
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it sounds like win win win.... and it's only an hour away so that if for some reason, you don't meet a lot of friends at the new school, you can still come down and hang with your previous buds.

in situations where the choice is either go or stay put, these days, i am very wary of the fact that the instinct to "stay put" can be driven by TIMIDITY and that's not good for a man.

it sounds like you've identified a good and VIABLE opportunity. and it sounds like you want to go.

you answered your own question no?

delta
 
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If you're going to change, do it for the right reasons.

In no way or form should females than you have yet to meet influence career-changing decisions.
 
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See the school I am applying to has a better program for pre med, thats what I want to do. Plus my friends are only an hour away. Its just that Im afraid of making a change, and it is a win win situation but im afraid of doing it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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right. that's natural. but that's timidity.

you've already made up your mind. do what you will.

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KillaCam said:
If you're going to change, do it for the right reasons.

In no way or form should females than you have yet to meet influence career-changing decisions.
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Signed.
 
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Are you guys even listening to what hes saying? He said he wants to meet new people and the other school is better academically. Dont just regurgitate what youve heard and ignore what hes saying.
 
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