"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I transfer colleges

theapprentice

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I am right now in a commuter college and I have a bunch of good friends i can trust, guys that I chill with every weekend and there cool. But I havent met any girls at the time I was here or not many. The thing is that I dont cold approach so meeting girls on a comuter campus is hard.

I am thinking of transfering to a school about an hour away that has a dormitory, and I was wondering that even though I would be alone completely for the first semester should I go with the possibilty of meeting new people or stay put with my current group of friends.

BTW the dormitory school has a better education.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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theapprentice

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no

No transfering schools will not interfere with my goals, but I feel that a scholl with dorms and frats would give me more oppurtunity to meet people and to at least experience something that I have wanted to.
 

Delta

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it sounds like win win win.... and it's only an hour away so that if for some reason, you don't meet a lot of friends at the new school, you can still come down and hang with your previous buds.

in situations where the choice is either go or stay put, these days, i am very wary of the fact that the instinct to "stay put" can be driven by TIMIDITY and that's not good for a man.

it sounds like you've identified a good and VIABLE opportunity. and it sounds like you want to go.

you answered your own question no?

delta
 

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If you're going to change, do it for the right reasons.

In no way or form should females than you have yet to meet influence career-changing decisions.
 

theapprentice

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see

See the school I am applying to has a better program for pre med, thats what I want to do. Plus my friends are only an hour away. Its just that Im afraid of making a change, and it is a win win situation but im afraid of doing it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Delta

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right. that's natural. but that's timidity.

you've already made up your mind. do what you will.

delta
 

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KillaCam said:
If you're going to change, do it for the right reasons.

In no way or form should females than you have yet to meet influence career-changing decisions.
Signed.
 

oakraiderz2

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Are you guys even listening to what hes saying? He said he wants to meet new people and the other school is better academically. Dont just regurgitate what youve heard and ignore what hes saying.
 
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