Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I transfer colleges

theapprentice

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I am right now in a commuter college and I have a bunch of good friends i can trust, guys that I chill with every weekend and there cool. But I havent met any girls at the time I was here or not many. The thing is that I dont cold approach so meeting girls on a comuter campus is hard.

I am thinking of transfering to a school about an hour away that has a dormitory, and I was wondering that even though I would be alone completely for the first semester should I go with the possibilty of meeting new people or stay put with my current group of friends.

BTW the dormitory school has a better education.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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no

No transfering schools will not interfere with my goals, but I feel that a scholl with dorms and frats would give me more oppurtunity to meet people and to at least experience something that I have wanted to.
 

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it sounds like win win win.... and it's only an hour away so that if for some reason, you don't meet a lot of friends at the new school, you can still come down and hang with your previous buds.

in situations where the choice is either go or stay put, these days, i am very wary of the fact that the instinct to "stay put" can be driven by TIMIDITY and that's not good for a man.

it sounds like you've identified a good and VIABLE opportunity. and it sounds like you want to go.

you answered your own question no?

delta
 

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If you're going to change, do it for the right reasons.

In no way or form should females than you have yet to meet influence career-changing decisions.
 

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See the school I am applying to has a better program for pre med, thats what I want to do. Plus my friends are only an hour away. Its just that Im afraid of making a change, and it is a win win situation but im afraid of doing it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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right. that's natural. but that's timidity.

you've already made up your mind. do what you will.

delta
 

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KillaCam said:
If you're going to change, do it for the right reasons.

In no way or form should females than you have yet to meet influence career-changing decisions.
Signed.
 

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Are you guys even listening to what hes saying? He said he wants to meet new people and the other school is better academically. Dont just regurgitate what youve heard and ignore what hes saying.
 
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