"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I text my ex on Christmas Day?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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floydb25

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To quote Enemy of The State: "You're either very smart, or incredibly stupid."
 
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Someone told me this a while ago, and I think you'll like it too. You should also apply it here.


It went something like "sex is a woman's currency. Attention is a man's currency. Spend it wisely."
 
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You know what...I say text her. I think it is the best for you to realize it is over.
Text her and wish her a "Merry Christmas" add on whatever you feel is necessary (Speak with your mind not your heart it will make you sound soft)

So when she DOESN'T respond back after you guys were "So happy" last year, you'll relize she wasn't **** and probably had some guy winning her over while you was dating her. It sucks but it will help you move on if she doesn't appreciate your effort on the holiday. Life is all about lessons to learn and that will be the eye opener for you my brother.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bud_Fox

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So I just found out she "unblocked" me on facebook after almost 2 months. And i'm 95% sure she isn't dating anyone. A few weeks ago she told my friend she didn't want anymore contact with me, but i'm starting to wonder if she misses me at all. Or maybe she just misses the attention I was giving her? Or maybe she is just lonely because it's almost Christmas. She still has the same facebook picture as before we broke up.
Maybe me not contacting her is starting to work?
Any thoughts?
 
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