"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I text my ex on Christmas Day?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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floydb25

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To quote Enemy of The State: "You're either very smart, or incredibly stupid."
 

Jon55

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Someone told me this a while ago, and I think you'll like it too. You should also apply it here.


It went something like "sex is a woman's currency. Attention is a man's currency. Spend it wisely."
 

Dearl

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You know what...I say text her. I think it is the best for you to realize it is over.
Text her and wish her a "Merry Christmas" add on whatever you feel is necessary (Speak with your mind not your heart it will make you sound soft)

So when she DOESN'T respond back after you guys were "So happy" last year, you'll relize she wasn't **** and probably had some guy winning her over while you was dating her. It sucks but it will help you move on if she doesn't appreciate your effort on the holiday. Life is all about lessons to learn and that will be the eye opener for you my brother.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bud_Fox

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So I just found out she "unblocked" me on facebook after almost 2 months. And i'm 95% sure she isn't dating anyone. A few weeks ago she told my friend she didn't want anymore contact with me, but i'm starting to wonder if she misses me at all. Or maybe she just misses the attention I was giving her? Or maybe she is just lonely because it's almost Christmas. She still has the same facebook picture as before we broke up.
Maybe me not contacting her is starting to work?
Any thoughts?
 
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