"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Should I text message her?

tamvonz1989

Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
There's this girl that im into. Last week, we were on a camp together with some other people. One night, we talked for 2 hours till midnight. On the bus ride home, i told her to write her number down then i said "dont worry, i'l only text u every 5 minutes". During the night, i texted calling her a monkey, then she replied the same way.


Yesterday (friday), after school, we walked past each other other. She says that i owe her 1000 text messages from last week and then says "bye monkey" in a joking tone. I grinned, waved then walked away.

The question is:

Should i text message her?

OR

Wait till she message me?

OR

See her on Monday?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

sparky0000

Banned
Joined
Apr 27, 2006
Messages
669
Reaction score
4
.

Uh...Monkey...Uh...Is that supposed to be funny? I swear, you boys had better be glad that I find American girls to be about as interesting as a trip to the proctologist. All this "Don Juan" stuff is screwing with your heads. Monkey? A 1000 text messages? Camp? Sounds absolutely peachy. Please let us know your decision and the end result. Mayber you can take her to the zoo or something.
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Sparky, monkey is sad, but the fact that she tells him he owes her a bunch of text messages, and that she finds the childish name humorous, helps him out. I'd say call her. Set up a time to hang out. Enough with the text messaging.
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Thats what the forum is made for. Stay fly my man.
 
Last edited:

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Top