"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Should I text message her?

tamvonz1989

Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
There's this girl that im into. Last week, we were on a camp together with some other people. One night, we talked for 2 hours till midnight. On the bus ride home, i told her to write her number down then i said "dont worry, i'l only text u every 5 minutes". During the night, i texted calling her a monkey, then she replied the same way.


Yesterday (friday), after school, we walked past each other other. She says that i owe her 1000 text messages from last week and then says "bye monkey" in a joking tone. I grinned, waved then walked away.

The question is:

Should i text message her?

OR

Wait till she message me?

OR

See her on Monday?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

sparky0000

Banned
Joined
Apr 27, 2006
Messages
669
Reaction score
4
.

Uh...Monkey...Uh...Is that supposed to be funny? I swear, you boys had better be glad that I find American girls to be about as interesting as a trip to the proctologist. All this "Don Juan" stuff is screwing with your heads. Monkey? A 1000 text messages? Camp? Sounds absolutely peachy. Please let us know your decision and the end result. Mayber you can take her to the zoo or something.
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Sparky, monkey is sad, but the fact that she tells him he owes her a bunch of text messages, and that she finds the childish name humorous, helps him out. I'd say call her. Set up a time to hang out. Enough with the text messaging.
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Thats what the forum is made for. Stay fly my man.
 
Last edited:

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top