SHould I text her today? Remaining relevant or coming off needy?

[Dante420]

This girl I hung out with on Wednesday, we texted a bit yesterday but she was getting drunk and I kept her laughing a lot through the texts just being a comedian but I kept it brief cause I had to go work out, she said she was drinking and I said text me back later tonight if you don't get too drunk - she didn't text me

Now it's Friday. Apparently according to PUA lexicon, I should be acting busy and unavailable for Friday's and Saturday's....so should I text her to remain relevant, this girls on the fence between going for guys or girls

 

[ARrocket]

I don't see a need to text her to remain "relevant." When you next text her, it should be to set up a get-together, so you can game her in person.

 

[Captain]

Now it's Friday. Apparently according to PUA lexicon, I should be acting busy and unavailable for Friday's and Saturday's....so should I text her to remain relevant, this girls on the fence between going for guys or girls

Fvck playing silly PUA games, if you want to see her, see her. Just don't do it in a needy way, for example, don't give her streams of sappy texts and don't always be available (it should be because you are actually busy.)

 

[Dante420]

Fvck playing silly PUA games, if you want to see her, see her. Just don't do it in a needy way, for example, don't give her streams of sappy texts and don't always be available (it should be because you are actually busy.)

Ya but my social life sucks....

 

[garruk]

This girl I hung out with on Wednesday, we texted a bit yesterday but she was getting drunk and I kept her laughing a lot through the texts just being a comedian but I kept it brief cause I had to go work out, she said she was drinking and I said text me back later tonight if you don't get too drunk - she didn't text me

Now it's Friday. Apparently according to PUA lexicon, I should be acting busy and unavailable for Friday's and Saturday's....so should I text her to remain relevant, this girls on the fence between going for guys or girls

haha i feel you on this. sometimes i wonder if i should send a text to remain "relevant" as well.

 

[jophil28]

....so should I text her to remain relevant, this girls on the fence between going for guys or girls

What? Perhaps you should find some women who are on y0ur side of the fence and actually WANT to hang out with you .

If a woman says that she is going to text you /call you or email you but does not she is sending you a message.

Can you guess what her reticence means ?

 

[Dante420]

She texted me back hours later to which I responded 20 minutes later and we had a short lil conversation......she's going to a concert tomorrow - should I contact if she doesn't?

 

[jophil28]

She texted me back hours later to which I responded 20 minutes later and we had a short lil conversation......she's going to a concert tomorrow - should I contact if she doesn't?

She contacted you to make herself "available" to you and to the possibility that you had some outing in mind.
Her text was an opening -a subtle invitation to you to move .
That is how women play their part in the seduction dance- they 'position' themselves in various ways and then (rightly) expect you to press down on the gas.

Did you set something up during that text convo ?