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Should i text her if she doesn't text me?

Demarcon

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Hello.
I met with a girl in a game and after a while she told me that "she wants to live with me","im like her male version","she wants to sleep with me","hug me" then we did facetime and talked about sexual things. Then she wanted me to come to her country for the new year celebrations which is not too far. And i told her that i will. And until one week ago we were talking like everyday. i was like playing a tennis. for the one day i waited her to text me first then the other day i texted her and we texted each other and started convos like that.
But realized that i was thinking about her all the time bc i don't talk to girls at the same time and i don't go outside meet ppl. Im kinda asocial and i don't have a lot of friends. So when you have only one girl you think about that girl and this situation makes me crazy i can't even sleep. i wake up suddenly and check my phone if she text me. I didn't show my feelings and i think im very good at it.
Anyway.
She admitted that by implying "she were interested and attracted to me" even i had never did that to her.
She doesn't text me since few days so do i. (our last convo was great btw)
So what should i do now? Should i text her or wait her to text me?
(srry4badenglish)
 

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I'm in the same situation, I just ended up ignoring them like they did to me. Just mirror her responses, if she seems to pull away or act colder then let it die off on its own. You can't negotiate interest after all. In fact I think that if you double text her then she might get annoyed and act even more distant.
edit: Oh wait, I just saw that she implied she's interested...what were the signs that she's attracted? I'd assume that if she was truly interested she'd reach out instead of waiting a couple of days. Who was the last person to text?
 

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Send her a meme that is somehow connected to her and say, "Saw this and thought of you."
 

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Who was the last person to text?
i was...
what were the signs that she's attracted?
She wanted to make love with me and told me that she wants to live with me forever.

you met her in a game?
Yeah i play Dead by daylight and i met with her in a random match.
C'mon man...go meet a woman in real life and stop with this stuff.
You are %100 right but i live in a muslim country and i don't have a wingman.
Send her a meme that is somehow connected to her and say, "Saw this and thought of you."
She used to do same things to me so did i. But if she was truly interested with me she would text me.
I woke up after 2 hours of sleep again...
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i was...

She wanted to make love with me and told me that she wants to live with me forever.


Yeah i play Dead by daylight and i met with her in a random match.

You are %100 right but i live in a muslim country and i don't have a wingman.

She used to do same things to me so did i. But if she was truly interested with me she would text me.
I woke up after 2 hours of sleep again...
(srry4badenglish)
Dude you have something called oneitis and she noticed it too


Nothing that you can do to make things better with her, you have to wait for her to come back to you and then you have to go slowly but surely more cold towards her and hopefully she will start chasing you

But again, it kinda looks like this is a dead end because you live in different countries + different cultures

Better to invest all this mental energy in trying to talk with other girls
 

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Dude you have something called oneitis and she noticed it too
No bro i have never showed my feelings to her. Even i became a oneitis (bc she is the only girl im talking to) i know about oneitism and i was really careful about it so i think she didn't noticed my feelings.
I know she is not my soulmate i know she is not "the one" but i can't stop thinking about her. Thats why having multiple girls in your life is the best way for "the game".
(srry4badenglish)
 

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But if you talk a lot to a girl she will just assume that you like her a lot :)
we did face times like 8 hours straight i was usually the one who says "goodbye, im gonna sleep.". i ended convos the most time.
But you made a good point...
 

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we did face times like 8 hours straight i was usually the one who says "goodbye, im gonna sleep.". i ended convos the most time.
But you made a good point...
The more time and attention you give a woman, the more status she thinks to have in your life. That's why you don't give them attention when they ask for it, but when you have the time to give attention to them.
 

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The more time and attention you give a woman, the more status she thinks to have in your life. That's why you don't give them attention when they ask for it, but when you have the time to give attention to them.
Yeah you are right. i will post here if anything happens.
i wont let the same things happen to me. i will focus on my bussines and wont let girls distract me. i couldnt sleep last night again... now im at work with 2 hours of sleep.
(srry4badenglish)
 
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