"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I tell this girl my "philosophy", or just keep playing her like this.

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The_Reaper

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I do not want a relationship with her. It's not the reason, but she's actually very overweight, and she is really infatuated with me. She has blown me numerous times, and afterwards, she wants to cuddle. I do it, but I feel that I am only exacerbating her feelings for me.

I am happy with being her friend and occasionally getting my **** sucked by her, but no more than this.

Should I tell her, or just keep doing my thing?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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librito

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just stop calling her and looking for her.... she will get the hint....also, let her know that you dont want any serious relationship with anybody, that way, she will know that you are not interested in a girlfriend, just a fck buddy. dont ever promise her anything you dont mean dont matter how good she sucks your duck.
 
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This is hilarious!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Anyway just keep getting your rocks off in her mouth.

Keep doing what you are doing with her basically and only worry about shutting her down if she actually vocalizes she'd like a relationship with you.

Once she does that your gravy train ends. :p
 
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