"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I tell this girl my "philosophy", or just keep playing her like this.

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The_Reaper

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I do not want a relationship with her. It's not the reason, but she's actually very overweight, and she is really infatuated with me. She has blown me numerous times, and afterwards, she wants to cuddle. I do it, but I feel that I am only exacerbating her feelings for me.

I am happy with being her friend and occasionally getting my **** sucked by her, but no more than this.

Should I tell her, or just keep doing my thing?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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librito

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just stop calling her and looking for her.... she will get the hint....also, let her know that you dont want any serious relationship with anybody, that way, she will know that you are not interested in a girlfriend, just a fck buddy. dont ever promise her anything you dont mean dont matter how good she sucks your duck.
 
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This is hilarious!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Anyway just keep getting your rocks off in her mouth.

Keep doing what you are doing with her basically and only worry about shutting her down if she actually vocalizes she'd like a relationship with you.

Once she does that your gravy train ends. :p
 
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