"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should I tell this girl my "philosophy", or just keep playing her like this.

The_Reaper

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I do not want a relationship with her. It's not the reason, but she's actually very overweight, and she is really infatuated with me. She has blown me numerous times, and afterwards, she wants to cuddle. I do it, but I feel that I am only exacerbating her feelings for me.

I am happy with being her friend and occasionally getting my **** sucked by her, but no more than this.

Should I tell her, or just keep doing my thing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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librito

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just stop calling her and looking for her.... she will get the hint....also, let her know that you dont want any serious relationship with anybody, that way, she will know that you are not interested in a girlfriend, just a fck buddy. dont ever promise her anything you dont mean dont matter how good she sucks your duck.
 

KontrollerX

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This is hilarious!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Anyway just keep getting your rocks off in her mouth.

Keep doing what you are doing with her basically and only worry about shutting her down if she actually vocalizes she'd like a relationship with you.

Once she does that your gravy train ends. :p
 
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