Basically the girl I'm in a LTR with this girl who is 3 years younger then me. She does have more experience then me however I do come off as being experienced and wear the pants in the relationship. It kind of bothers me that she was my first GF, first kiss, first everything etc and I'm not hers or anything. I've came off as having a few past GF's but never said I did. Should I ever let her know how she is basically my first everything?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There's no reason to, and it won't bring anything good, only bad. You say you come off as experienced and you wear the pants. Good. There's no reason to tell her, that kind of thing breaks down LTRs. They guy gets into a relationship, then thinks since he has the girl he can let his guard down and because soft, sappy and complacent.
Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
Agree..
try hard and more to more in the life...
that's wonderful..:rock:
I think each person has their own way of thinking, I have no experience in this problem but we can have try to a little more thought would solve the problem.U-571 said:Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
try hard and more to more in the life...
that's wonderful..:rock:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So If she asks
Her: "Can you tell me a little bit about your past relationships?"
Me: "I'm not obligated to tell you anything, and personally I don't want to hear about yours so stop bringing this up."
or should I lie and basically say something more on the lines that I've been with many many many women or kind of tell the story about how I played doctor with this girl when I was like 8 years old but make it sound like it was when I was 14?
Her: "Can you tell me a little bit about your past relationships?"
Me: "I'm not obligated to tell you anything, and personally I don't want to hear about yours so stop bringing this up."
or should I lie and basically say something more on the lines that I've been with many many many women or kind of tell the story about how I played doctor with this girl when I was like 8 years old but make it sound like it was when I was 14?
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