Basically the girl I'm in a LTR with this girl who is 3 years younger then me. She does have more experience then me however I do come off as being experienced and wear the pants in the relationship. It kind of bothers me that she was my first GF, first kiss, first everything etc and I'm not hers or anything. I've came off as having a few past GF's but never said I did. Should I ever let her know how she is basically my first everything?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Should I tell her
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There's no reason to, and it won't bring anything good, only bad. You say you come off as experienced and you wear the pants. Good. There's no reason to tell her, that kind of thing breaks down LTRs. They guy gets into a relationship, then thinks since he has the girl he can let his guard down and because soft, sappy and complacent.
Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
Agree..
try hard and more to more in the life...
that's wonderful..:rock:
I think each person has their own way of thinking, I have no experience in this problem but we can have try to a little more thought would solve the problem.U-571 said:Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
try hard and more to more in the life...
that's wonderful..:rock:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So If she asks
Her: "Can you tell me a little bit about your past relationships?"
Me: "I'm not obligated to tell you anything, and personally I don't want to hear about yours so stop bringing this up."
or should I lie and basically say something more on the lines that I've been with many many many women or kind of tell the story about how I played doctor with this girl when I was like 8 years old but make it sound like it was when I was 14?
Her: "Can you tell me a little bit about your past relationships?"
Me: "I'm not obligated to tell you anything, and personally I don't want to hear about yours so stop bringing this up."
or should I lie and basically say something more on the lines that I've been with many many many women or kind of tell the story about how I played doctor with this girl when I was like 8 years old but make it sound like it was when I was 14?
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