Basically the girl I'm in a LTR with this girl who is 3 years younger then me. She does have more experience then me however I do come off as being experienced and wear the pants in the relationship. It kind of bothers me that she was my first GF, first kiss, first everything etc and I'm not hers or anything. I've came off as having a few past GF's but never said I did. Should I ever let her know how she is basically my first everything?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Should I tell her
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There's no reason to, and it won't bring anything good, only bad. You say you come off as experienced and you wear the pants. Good. There's no reason to tell her, that kind of thing breaks down LTRs. They guy gets into a relationship, then thinks since he has the girl he can let his guard down and because soft, sappy and complacent.
Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
Agree..
try hard and more to more in the life...
that's wonderful..:rock:
I think each person has their own way of thinking, I have no experience in this problem but we can have try to a little more thought would solve the problem.U-571 said:Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything.
Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience".
Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.
try hard and more to more in the life...
that's wonderful..:rock:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So If she asks
Her: "Can you tell me a little bit about your past relationships?"
Me: "I'm not obligated to tell you anything, and personally I don't want to hear about yours so stop bringing this up."
or should I lie and basically say something more on the lines that I've been with many many many women or kind of tell the story about how I played doctor with this girl when I was like 8 years old but make it sound like it was when I was 14?
Her: "Can you tell me a little bit about your past relationships?"
Me: "I'm not obligated to tell you anything, and personally I don't want to hear about yours so stop bringing this up."
or should I lie and basically say something more on the lines that I've been with many many many women or kind of tell the story about how I played doctor with this girl when I was like 8 years old but make it sound like it was when I was 14?
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