Should I tell a woman my last name on first date?

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I get where you are coming from.

Not a fan of OLD but I downloaded tinder and pof a couple of weeks ago hearing guys go on about it here.

Met a girl from Tinder and bear in mind I have no social media accounts. None. Only whatsapp. I do however have a work profile page with photo, details and even some positive commentaries from clients / employers. Now, this girl didn't have my surname only my first name, my nationality and job....

I hear that. Just know 99% use it so some presence is ideal. Maybe not blue check but...!

For some reason she thought she would bring up that she "googled" me and told me what she found. She was giving me "a thumbs up" but I was kind of like......wtf? not only did you google me but you are bringing it up and telling me about it...
sort of a buzzkill and a bit creepy.

The girls talk **** about not needing a man. That they like they can fight a man. Real talk she knows if you wanted to you could have her head on your wall and you could wear her as a coat lulz.

In fairness women want SECURITY #1. A guy with any understanding of digital content can take a girls user from IG or email and you can find dirt. Tbh the way modern women move I encourage it. One of my mates found a girl was a escort. Many sugar babies. I found girls on ex gf revenge.

She may have just prioritized safety. Try seeing it from her frame. I now video chat every girl off OLD but 99% of what I do is cold approach.

What app and telegram are nice

I get "hey stranger" texts. If they on their you see who it is.

Unless she was a weirdo maybe run it back 1x more. A lot of girls were crazy in a yr of lock down.

 

[BriBri]

Bri mate, you gotta be a modern day batman up on this *****. SRS!

In the false accusations Era 0f #metoo and cancel culture (not to mention wrecking a guys career without any resource nor consequences if even proven false) fellas need to exercise common sense.

Fame is irrelevant whereby the western culture dumpster fire promos false accusation for vindictive women. Not getting the ring is grounds for false rapey accusations or something like sexual harassment despite a archive of texts nudes and sex tapes (which @BriBri should always archive). Fellas all should keep texts nudes and backup your ****. Not cloud storage.

^^^^^This. While I am certainly not 'famous' enough for #metoo, just one call to my employer by a 'vindictive' girl/woman will end it for me, especially as I have female clients that I am currently on good terms with. Also, I wouldn't want to be seen as that 'creepy guy' in the office (although working remotely has its benefits). Oh well...I'll just go with the flow and deal with it if it ever comes up.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

^^^^^This. While I am certainly not 'famous' enough for #metoo, just one call to my employer by a 'vindictive' girl/woman will end it for me, especially as I have female clients that I am currently on good terms with. Also, I wouldn't want to be seen as that 'creepy guy' in the office (although working remotely has its benefits). Oh well...I'll just go with the flow and deal with it if it ever comes up.

The disclaimer being say Tusk making an advance in the office, it's not creepy. Most guys are near autistic in regards to game and social skills.

Def archive your experiences.