"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I take it as an insult when a girl says..

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when a girl says, "he's one of the nicest guys i know"... Is that a bad sign?

Ok i'll post what she wrote about me: (It was'nt in pure english so i'll do my best to translate it.)

This is by the way a written testimony of me in a friendster account (not sure if any of u are familiar with it)

hey miss u already! *sigh*..
this guy will be the next of "the
maskulados" hahaha YiKes... wel wel
wel! just.. don't ever leave me...

why do u
always like to go watch movies,
but u never ask me.. tsk
tsk!bad..hahaha =)

-------- cut off the mushy stuff i couldnt explain -------

..he's soooo
sweeeettt..!*wink wink*
nku! i'm inlove... hahaha =)
well he is one of niciest guy i knw...
take care always cz i cre!miz yah...
mch... mwahhhh!!!!


This was back when I never applied anything I know from this site. I still have'nt applied anything even now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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karusel

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Nothing that you read on internet that is personally meant for you is really true. When on the net, people change, they type things they would never say to your face.

What she wrote was pretty immature and she probably only meant it 'electronically'.
 
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