"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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should i stop wasting my time????

asiacbrf2

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hey y'all

heres a quick synopsis. Ive been talkin to this girl for about a month now and we dont get to see each other often cause all the stuff we gotta do. Anywho, so its evident that i like her and vice versa. SO last thursday, we go out and we both get tipsy and i started mouthing off, tellin her that i like her and what are my chances, and all that stuff--Yeah, i know, stupid! Anywho, so she continues calling me everyday, talking for a few minutes and what not. Well last night, we go out and i go for a kiss, but i get the cheek. And its been like that for a while now! Go for a kiss- cheek! Go for a kiss-cheek! Should i just stop wasting my time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
:crackup:

"What are my chances" was my favorite part!

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Well regaining your composure, are you going to comment on the obvious problem with this situation or should I?
 

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if hasnt yet told you to stop trying to kiss her then hell no dont stop.be persistent some day it will work out how you want it. cause i wouldnt kiss some chick on the cheeks if she was my friend so she knows your intentions,she just isnt ready yet.
 

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you will finger her ***** **** it harder and harder with your fingers till the ***** mucus is like a river!!!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
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asiacbrf2 she's acting this way because it's not that she doesn't like you. She doesn't like AFC's (Average Frustrated Chumps). And that's how you're acting. I believe every guys has a Don Juan inside him and he can bring it out with the right training and experience.

Read the bible and the archives and apply what you read.
I'll add that you've only seen each other twice in a month, the first time you were a drunk AFC. What have you done that would make her want to kiss you? Is there any mutual chemistry or attraction?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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asiacbrf2

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ouch! lol, u guys are crazy! in a good way of course! Thats why i love this site, u guys tell it the way it is. Btw, we went out a few times, but that was like to starbucks and sh!t. But this is what im gonna do, imma just scratch this and start over with another. This time, imma read the bible! lol, thanks!
 
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