"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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should i stop wasting my time????

asiacbrf2

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hey y'all

heres a quick synopsis. Ive been talkin to this girl for about a month now and we dont get to see each other often cause all the stuff we gotta do. Anywho, so its evident that i like her and vice versa. SO last thursday, we go out and we both get tipsy and i started mouthing off, tellin her that i like her and what are my chances, and all that stuff--Yeah, i know, stupid! Anywho, so she continues calling me everyday, talking for a few minutes and what not. Well last night, we go out and i go for a kiss, but i get the cheek. And its been like that for a while now! Go for a kiss- cheek! Go for a kiss-cheek! Should i just stop wasting my time?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
:crackup:

"What are my chances" was my favorite part!

:crackup:
Well regaining your composure, are you going to comment on the obvious problem with this situation or should I?
 

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if hasnt yet told you to stop trying to kiss her then hell no dont stop.be persistent some day it will work out how you want it. cause i wouldnt kiss some chick on the cheeks if she was my friend so she knows your intentions,she just isnt ready yet.
 

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you will finger her ***** **** it harder and harder with your fingers till the ***** mucus is like a river!!!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
:rolleyes:

asiacbrf2 she's acting this way because it's not that she doesn't like you. She doesn't like AFC's (Average Frustrated Chumps). And that's how you're acting. I believe every guys has a Don Juan inside him and he can bring it out with the right training and experience.

Read the bible and the archives and apply what you read.
I'll add that you've only seen each other twice in a month, the first time you were a drunk AFC. What have you done that would make her want to kiss you? Is there any mutual chemistry or attraction?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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asiacbrf2

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ouch! lol, u guys are crazy! in a good way of course! Thats why i love this site, u guys tell it the way it is. Btw, we went out a few times, but that was like to starbucks and sh!t. But this is what im gonna do, imma just scratch this and start over with another. This time, imma read the bible! lol, thanks!
 
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