"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I stop gaming this Freshman girl?

ElStud

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Well there's this Freshman girl, who is starting to show REAL signs of attraction to me and is has even started jokingly calling me her boyfriend and stuff. Now, I might do this but there's a problem, I'm a senior and I'm 18 and this girl is like 15 now. The number 1 reason I wouldn't do that sh*t is because I'm afraid if I DO and anyone finds out, my ass is going to get landed in jail. I constantly tell her she's too young, but despite that she's still interested. She's okay looking and honestly if she weren't a Freshman, I maybe would've hit it. But yeah man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shes just interested in you because you are a senior, ignore her and treat her like a friend, then the attraction will go away
 

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El Stud, this might be the best post you have ever made. I'm not trying to be a d!ck, and I'm sorry if I come off sounding like that, but you are actually demonstrating some game here and a decent amount of it at that.

Let me break down what is happening here.

You have social value over this chick because you are a senior and she is a freshman. That is the wonderful thing about high school, the upperclassmen - even the freaks and geeks - have instant social value because of their age. All the while, you are ignoring her and telling her she can't have you, which is just raising her IL even more for you. This is a classic demonstration of girls wanting what they can't have.

I'd imagine that you bringing up the age difference is helping your cause even more and only working to increase your social value.

What would I do if were you? I'd hook up with her, and I hope I don't sound like a complete perv for making that suggestion. Here's why. Tons of my friends in high school dated freshmen when we were seniors and nothing ever came of it, even though they were having sex. At the very least, just go out with her a little bit and get some experience with her before you head off to college. You can't get arrested or in trouble for making out with her I don't think.

You don't want to be that guy living on the dorm room floor who wouldn't know a pu$$y if one was put on his nose. Every guy on this message board who went to college I'm sure can identify a guy they knew who came into college as a freshman without ever having any sexual experience with girls.

At least think about it El Stud. I think it would really help you out if you got a little action and experienced some success - even if it is just making out. This girl wants your bones. Just invite her out to a party or for a date even and kiss close her. Shouldn't be hard, as it sounds like she is already hot to trot.
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
El Stud, this might be the best post you have ever made. I'm not trying to be a d!ck, and I'm sorry if I come off sounding like that, but you are actually demonstrating some game here and a decent amount of it at that.

Let me break down what is happening here.

You have social value over this chick because you are a senior and she is a freshman. That is the wonderful thing about high school, the upperclassmen - even the freaks and geeks - have instant social value because of their age. All the while, you are ignoring her and telling her she can't have you, which is just raising her IL even more for you. This is a classic demonstration of girls wanting what they can't have.

I'd imagine that you bringing up the age difference is helping your cause even more and only working to increase your social value.

What would I do if were you? I'd hook up with her, and I hope I don't sound like a complete perv for making that suggestion. Here's why. Tons of my friends in high school dated freshmen when we were seniors and nothing ever came of it, even though they were having sex. At the very least, just go out with her a little bit and get some experience with her before you head off to college. You can't get arrested or in trouble for making out with her I don't think.

You don't want to be that guy living on the dorm room floor who wouldn't know a pu$$y if one was put on his nose. Every guy on this message board who went to college I'm sure can identify a guy they knew who came into college as a freshman without ever having any sexual experience with girls.

At least think about it El Stud. I think it would really help you out if you got a little action and experienced some success - even if it is just making out. This girl wants your bones. Just invite her out to a party or for a date even and kiss close her. Shouldn't be hard, as it sounds like she is already hot to trot.
I agree 110%... oddly enough its the natural order of things. The younger girls are attracted to older guys, ESPECIALLY in high school... take advantage of your social proof and man up and go for it.
 

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ElStud said:
Well there's this Freshman girl, who is starting to show REAL signs of attraction to me and is has even started jokingly calling me her boyfriend and stuff. Now, I might do this but there's a problem, I'm a senior and I'm 18 and this girl is like 15 now. The number 1 reason I wouldn't do that sh*t is because I'm afraid if I DO and anyone finds out, my ass is going to get landed in jail. I constantly tell her she's too young, but despite that she's still interested. She's okay looking and honestly if she weren't a Freshman, I maybe would've hit it. But yeah man.
Yuck. There's plenty a fish in the sea.

Seniors who hook up with freshman either A) Don't have enough game to hook up with girls in their own grade or B) Are ****ing creeps

Don't do it man. Especially if you don't even think you're gonna bang her. Not worth the risk (even if you were going to, it isn't anyway...)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Supremo said:
Yuck. There's plenty a fish in the sea.

Seniors who hook up with freshman either A) Don't have enough game to hook up with girls in their own grade or B) Are ****ing creeps

Don't do it man. Especially if you don't even think you're gonna bang her. Not worth the risk (even if you were going to, it isn't anyway...)
Blah Blah Blah, I hear everyone say that so I'm going to repeat it here. Younger girls don't have the "high school guys are like so immature like OMG" attitude. They are much less of a pain in the ass. They will be less argumentative and be happier just being with you.

For legal check your state laws :up:.
 

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ElStud said:
Well there's this Freshman girl, who is starting to show REAL signs of attraction to me and is has even started jokingly calling me her boyfriend and stuff. Now, I might do this but there's a problem, I'm a senior and I'm 18 and this girl is like 15 now. The number 1 reason I wouldn't do that sh*t is because I'm afraid if I DO and anyone finds out, my ass is going to get landed in jail. I constantly tell her she's too young, but despite that she's still interested. She's okay looking and honestly if she weren't a Freshman, I maybe would've hit it. But yeah man.
LMFAO, the only thing you ever hit is you wall with ur nut every night.
 
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