What's up everyone, here's my story/question. I'm in a sort of long distance relationship. I can hear the gaps already, but be patient. It's actually been really nice. I don't have to deal with her every day, I don't have to tell her where I go/what I do (I don't cheat though), and it stays fresh. I see her about every 1-2 weeks. Recently though, she has been acting weird. She hasn't really been answering my calls/messages and such. She still sends me text messages though. Now, I wasn't born yesterday- I know something is up. However, surprisingly enough, even though I thought I was emotionally involved in the relationship, I find myself not caring. I mean, I care a little, but it barely bothers me. I guess I'm confident enough now to feel that if she doesn't want me, she's a moron and I don't want her. Now my question is this: would it be considered poor form to stay in the "relationship" for the free sex? She's about a 9, if it matters, and she has never dumped anyone, so I think I have this thing going for as long as I want. Thanks in advance.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should I stay with her?
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