What's up everyone, here's my story/question. I'm in a sort of long distance relationship. I can hear the gaps already, but be patient. It's actually been really nice. I don't have to deal with her every day, I don't have to tell her where I go/what I do (I don't cheat though), and it stays fresh. I see her about every 1-2 weeks. Recently though, she has been acting weird. She hasn't really been answering my calls/messages and such. She still sends me text messages though. Now, I wasn't born yesterday- I know something is up. However, surprisingly enough, even though I thought I was emotionally involved in the relationship, I find myself not caring. I mean, I care a little, but it barely bothers me. I guess I'm confident enough now to feel that if she doesn't want me, she's a moron and I don't want her. Now my question is this: would it be considered poor form to stay in the "relationship" for the free sex? She's about a 9, if it matters, and she has never dumped anyone, so I think I have this thing going for as long as I want. Thanks in advance.
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Should I stay with her?
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