"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I stay or should I go?

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Originally posted by TheTraveller
Oh yes, I do want to experience more, so I should move on based on that. I live in a city in which there are MANY smart people, many types of people.

Yet, at the same time, I just feel unsure as to whether or not I can meet somebody else who is smart and nice and caring. But with better looks.

Life is an experience and perhaps I need more. The only worry is never being able to find a nice girl again.
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There are lots of nice girls, you just have to find them, and that is what the Don Juan theories try to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well, that is true. I've figured out some personal issues dating back to childhood in the past 2 months, hoping perhaps then after these past 2 months I will have changed my view on my gf. Well, I am still in doubts about taking it long term and we've been together 7 months. I have to decide on her now.

Sometimes when we're out in public I'm not totally attracted to her, and it can be slightly embarrasing seeing all the other hotter girls around. I've tried to get over this, and I do see beauty in her, just not total 100% beauty.

Her nice nature wins me over, and we don't fight, so this makes it hard for me to rationalize that it will be hard to find a girl that accepts me for who I am and loves me unconditionally like this one does, as I'm not perfect. I've neglected the gym and my hobbies for the past 7 months to spend a lot of time with this girl, and that upsets me too.

Any more advice?
 
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I can't really tell you what you should do, but I think the moral of this story is that you shouldn't hook up with girls you aren't attracted to. Looks aren't everything, but to men, they are significant.
 
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