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Should i skip the first kiss if i'm sick?

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My second date is Tuesday with this girl, and i my throat is killing me, chances are, i'll still be a little sick Tuesday, should i go for the kiss anyway?
 

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just cancel on her and tell her your throats sore af and your sick. you are coming from scarcity viewpoint right now
 

djthiago1

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just cancel on her and tell her your throats sore af and your sick. you are coming from scarcity viewpoint right now
First date she went out with me she was a little sick too, makes no sense for me to cancel over a sore throat.
 

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Nah, deep tongue action on that date and when she gets sick in a few days just blame it on the weather.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hahaha, definetely sounds better that saying i got the sniffles lol
If you really feel like you need hide being contagious and pass on your cold germs just to get a kiss then maybe cancel the date.

However If you genuinely enjoy her company just tell her you have a bit of a sore throat and find other ways to be close without making her sick, like some flirting and building sexual tension using other means, rather than secretly giving her your sore throat lol. She has other none germ entry body parts that can be kissed right?

Also if she goes in for a kiss despite knowing you have a cold it’s on her.
 

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You'll do more to get her chasing you if you cancel because you are sick than anything else that could happen.
 

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First date she went out with me she was a little sick too, makes no sense for me to cancel over a sore throat.
why even make this dumbass thread

sounds like she the one who got you sick anyway.
 

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Turns out i got a sinus infection, since it's non contagius, she's definetely getting the kiss. Lucky her.
 

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