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Should i skip the first kiss if i'm sick?

djthiago1

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My second date is Tuesday with this girl, and i my throat is killing me, chances are, i'll still be a little sick Tuesday, should i go for the kiss anyway?
 

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just cancel on her and tell her your throats sore af and your sick. you are coming from scarcity viewpoint right now
 

djthiago1

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just cancel on her and tell her your throats sore af and your sick. you are coming from scarcity viewpoint right now
First date she went out with me she was a little sick too, makes no sense for me to cancel over a sore throat.
 

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Nah, deep tongue action on that date and when she gets sick in a few days just blame it on the weather.
 

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hahaha, definetely sounds better that saying i got the sniffles lol
If you really feel like you need hide being contagious and pass on your cold germs just to get a kiss then maybe cancel the date.

However If you genuinely enjoy her company just tell her you have a bit of a sore throat and find other ways to be close without making her sick, like some flirting and building sexual tension using other means, rather than secretly giving her your sore throat lol. She has other none germ entry body parts that can be kissed right?

Also if she goes in for a kiss despite knowing you have a cold it’s on her.
 

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You'll do more to get her chasing you if you cancel because you are sick than anything else that could happen.
 

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First date she went out with me she was a little sick too, makes no sense for me to cancel over a sore throat.
why even make this dumbass thread

sounds like she the one who got you sick anyway.
 

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Turns out i got a sinus infection, since it's non contagius, she's definetely getting the kiss. Lucky her.
 

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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