"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I Shave My Head?

Centaurion

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Do mind posting a pic up?

I have a smilar facial structure (and problem) as you , and I was wondering if the shaved look would fit me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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STR8UP

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I have been doing it for about the past 8 years. It's a hell of a lot better than watching your hair fizzle away.

I never had a problem getting women with a shaved head. I'm sure that it limits your prospects to some extent, but by no means does it eliminate them.

I know you're going to tell me I'm crazy, but check out http://www.toplace.com .

I have gotten to the point where I am ready for a change, so I am transitioning into a hairpiece. The quality of them today is of such that they are virtually indistinguishable from your own real, growing hair. Ever see Sean Connery in a movie with more hair than he had in his LAST movie? Now you know how they did it. Brendan Fasier, Ben Afflec, and John Travolta all wear high quality hairpieces.

Don't rule it out until you check out the site, the pics, and read some of the messages on the message board over there.

I should have mine in a couple of weeks and I will certainly post a review.
 

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I started shaving my head in the Army because it got pretty damn hot in the desert. My hair was pretty short already so what was a little more? I actually liked the look probably because I dont have any scars or lumps on my head. Ive kept it this way for almost 3 years now. Best hair for me in my opinion. I am not a muscle head but do have muscle. I weigh 203 and am 5' 10" with about 10% Bf so I am not huge but I am not frail looking.
Definetly tan your self at first. IT wasnt bad for me since my hair already was short but others who had long hair and did it have darker face than the head.
I have olive skin so I am a bit dark but if i was paler I would definetly hit the booth for some color.
I think the hair looks best the day after you shave it. That stubble look is perfect for me. I wish I could duplicate it with clippers.
LEt me also add, get a good razor like a mach 3 and throw the blades out regularly. Last thing you need is to bleed.
 
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