"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I shave my chin hair?

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Well, I'm trying to improve my appearence and I was wondering, should I shave my Chin/Facial hair? I have A LOT more chin hair than most people that are my age and although people say it makes me look older, I just don't think I look clean with it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, if you can keep your facial hair good looking, it won't hold you back.

But getting rid of it will just make it that much easier. If you can make it look good for you you can keep it if you want, but it's not going to help you pick up chicks any easier had you shaved.

If you think it doesn't look good / clean, don't keep it just because people say it makes you look older.
 
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i clean my up! pretty good i keeps some in the middle, nothing eles
 
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Well if you got the Osama Bin Laden thing going on, I suggest use shave it. Or just trim it down some.
 
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Originally posted by Viper
Well, I'm trying to improve my appearence and I was wondering, should I shave my Chin/Facial hair? I have A LOT more chin hair than most people that are my age and although people say it makes me look older, I just don't think I look clean with it.
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yea man shave it unless u got the style goin on. u can look clean wit it. jsut trim it and sharpen the borders or wutever you call them. it looks good wit a nice haircut and little sideburns too, if ur black, an asian guy, like me, couldn't pull tat off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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