"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I shave my chin hair?

Viper

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Well, I'm trying to improve my appearence and I was wondering, should I shave my Chin/Facial hair? I have A LOT more chin hair than most people that are my age and although people say it makes me look older, I just don't think I look clean with it.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zod

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Well, if you can keep your facial hair good looking, it won't hold you back.

But getting rid of it will just make it that much easier. If you can make it look good for you you can keep it if you want, but it's not going to help you pick up chicks any easier had you shaved.

If you think it doesn't look good / clean, don't keep it just because people say it makes you look older.
 

S-lemond

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i clean my up! pretty good i keeps some in the middle, nothing eles
 

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Well if you got the Osama Bin Laden thing going on, I suggest use shave it. Or just trim it down some.
 

Inquire

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Originally posted by Viper
Well, I'm trying to improve my appearence and I was wondering, should I shave my Chin/Facial hair? I have A LOT more chin hair than most people that are my age and although people say it makes me look older, I just don't think I look clean with it.
yea man shave it unless u got the style goin on. u can look clean wit it. jsut trim it and sharpen the borders or wutever you call them. it looks good wit a nice haircut and little sideburns too, if ur black, an asian guy, like me, couldn't pull tat off.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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