"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I Settle Down?

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SinJester

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Recently I have been pimpin' it up and working on my game. I have improved so much its crazy, scoring all along the way. On New Years I got with a girl that I was good friends with. Don't know how that happened. Her friends came up and told me that she liked me. We ended up fully makin' out on 12 o'clock.

We met up again later that night and it happened again. I was all over her but she loved it. Just felt right.

Now I'm really sure she likes me and I'm not sure if I should settle down or not. She is a really nice person but she is only above average. The thing is I know I could have anyone I want, I've been scoring chicks so hot that every guy I've talked to was jealous or congratulated me. So do I want to go for this girl?

Also that means I wont be able to game girls anymore, when I've got a few lined up and there's so much I want to try.

I need the LTR experianced badly anyway. Probably more than general 'game' as I think I might have that covered now. Being friends just cuts so much awkard crap out as we already know each other.

I think I'm gonna go for it and/or see what happens. I've been asking for a LTR for so long I probably shouldn't throw this away just on the grounds of a ego trip.

What do you guys think?

EDIT:

Strange thing is I put NO dj game into this girl at all. None. Nothing. Came out of nowhere. But then some say the best ones do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why not settle down for a bit?
see if its what u want
if it isnt you can always break up with her or just tell her you need a break for a bit to think
 
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it really depends on how old you are bud, i know guys in their 18's that tell me all the time "Dude i want to settle down and possibly marry her!!" i tell them of course thats great and they should go for it, but don't spend all your time on just one girl especially if your young.. if you believe strongly in your heart that she's the one for you bro go for it. but don't spend a time you could have been having fun to settle down with someone and then end up hurting.
i tell my friends all the time... after high school long relationships happen more often.

but thats just me :)
 
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Don't settle down, you'll regret it.
 
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SinJester

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I'm 16 so marriage isn't even in my vocabulary at the moment. When I say settle down I just mean get a girlfriend. I do need LTR experiance.

@Rata Blanca: why?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonAlan456

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why not do it
if u see a a dif girl ud rather go out w then dump her
 
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